One of our customer-friends just emailed over this beautiful story of their engagement proposal. I hope you enjoy reading it, perhaps get inspired from it!
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Romance and Then the Stone
“What a beautiful afternoon! It’s perfect,” she exclaimed, and she wasn’t exaggerating.
Bright Louisiana sunshine filtered down through the pine trees, and a few brown ducks played by the edge of the pond in Audubon Park. My girlfriend of almost two years walked next to me, the fingers of her left hand entwined in mine. We had come to New Orleans under the ruse of visiting my family, but in reality I had a single, important question in mind. We had just arrived from the airport, and as we were both hungry, I suggested we try the new restaurant that had recently opened in the park across the street from my parents’ house. She continued to chatter away, happy and yet blithely unaware that decisions would be made in the next few minutes that would determine the course of our lives together.
“You really do love parks, don’t you?” I asked with a smile.
She was so clearly in seventh heaven with fresh air in her lungs and sun soaking her blond hair. In college, she had spent a semester in Paris and some of her fondest memories in life were the afternoons she spent spread out on a blanket on soft French grass reading a good book in the middle of the famous capital. She couldn’t believe her luck today, as we strolled slowly through the park. As a professional racecar driver, I am not a walk-in-the-park kind of guy. In fact, all of our activities together, free diving and spear fishing in the lower Bahamas, biking to the top of Aspen mountains, speed boating, motorcycle riding, they always seem to deal in some way with either insane speed or the possibility of death or dismemberment. Today, this gentle walk on a beautiful sunlit Friday was all for her.
I led her from the foot path toward the edge of the pond, and then in a flash, before I could procrastinate any longer, I was on my knees. Not one knee, but in my nervousness I had taken two! I scooped up a leaf from the ground and raised it in front of me.
“Will you marry me?” I held the leaf up higher.
“Are you serious?” she asked.
“Marry me with this leaf?” I asked her again.
She swiped the leaf from my hand and held it to her chest.
“Yes! Yes, I’ll marry you!” she beamed.
Her parents had become engaged on a picnic 41 years before in upstate New York. A leaf had fallen into their picnic basket, and her father, who at the time was a law school student and couldn’t afford an engagement ring, decided that that small detail shouldn’t stand it their way and proposed with that fortuitous leaf, which they have to this day. She couldn’t believe I had remembered this romantic family story that she had shared with me only once, months before.
“Now, let’s find that restaurant. I’m starving!” I said, as I threw my arms around her shoulder and we continued around a bend in the pond. She walked forward, the leaf still clutched to her chest. Her eyes were wide with shock and joy. Did she really think that was it? A leaf and a hamburger to follow at a neighborhood joint? I could do better than that.
As we rounded the corner and she saw past a row of bushes, she gasped.
“Is that for us?” she exclaimed, but softly as if in doubt.
An entire picnic lunch had been spread out across a white brocaded blanket arranged by the water’s edge, framed with large linen pillows, and decked out with bouquets of white roses, chocolate covered strawberries, a book of love poems, a silver ice bucket with Dom Perignon and a set of crystal champagne glasses.
“Yes, it is for us! And, this,” I paused, as I pulled the shimmering seven carat emerald cut diamond engagement ring from my pocket, “this is for you.”
This time, I got it right. I knelt to a single knee, and slid the magnificent platinum ring onto her finger.
In addition to being a racecar driver in the American Le Mans Series, Chapman Ducote is also the President and CEO of Merchant Services LTD, a full-service, vertically integrated credit and debit card processing company, and has completed several successful real estate development ventures. Kristin Snyder is a practicing attorney in South Florida and currently limits her practice to estate planning and probate matters. Chapman and Kristin have begun to plan a spring wedding which will take place in the Bahamas.